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How To Declutter With A Swishing Party: Ours Was In Aid Of Tiny Tickers

This year, I am doing my best to #LiveLAGOM, which is a Swedish concept of having enough, but not too much. It all stemmed from a sustainable living project I am doing with IKEA and environmental charity Hubbub. One of my the ways I want to Live LAGOM is to cut the clutter, and remove the things we don’t need or use from our house.

This has led to me sorting out quite a ridiculous amount of clothes and accessories, to go to a new home. I was pretty ashamed of how many clothes and shoes I have, particularly considering I pretty much only ever wear skinny jeans and a sweatshirt or jumper! OK so I do obviously need dresses and nice clothes for weddings, parties, and work (though I need a lot less now I work from home a lot – helllloooo PJs!) but I definitely don’t need the seven or eight pairs of pre-children jeans that I am realistically never going to get back in to.

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Instead of just taking them to a charity shop, I decided to hold a Swishing Party, to have some fun, and raise a bit of money for baby hearts charity Tiny Tickers. It’s Heart Week, which runs from the 7th to the 14th of February, so a great reason to do some fundraising, and also raise awareness of this great little charity. Several of my friends have had babies with heart problems, so I think it’s a great cause. 

So here is a bit of background About Tiny Tickers:

Tiny Tickers is a small national charity that aims to improve the detection, care and treatment of congenital heart disease (CHD) in babies. Tiny Tickers provides specialist training to health professionals and sonographers and supports parents and families dealing with a diagnosis, as well as raising awareness of heart defects in babies so that parents know what signs to look out for.

Heart Week will help raise vital funds and awareness for the 1,000 babies who are sent home from hospitals every year with an undetected heart condition.

Think HEART points to a range of symptoms that, although non-specific, may be signs of an underlying heart defect – reducing oxygenated blood flow and needing urgent attention:

♥ Heart rate: too fast or slow? (normally 100 to 160 beats per minute)
♥ Energy & Feeding: sleepy, quiet, floppy, too tired to feed or falling asleep during feeds?
♥ Appearance: a pale, waxy, dusky, blue, purple, mottled or grey colour may mean that not enough oxygenated, red blood is getting to the body (normal oxygen saturations are 95-100%)
♥ Respiration: breathing too fast or slow? (normally 40-60 breaths per minute)
♥ Temperature: cold to touch – particularly hands and feet?

A great cause right? If you would like to support them, you can get a fundraising pack here. I actually didn’t manage to get around to that though! One of my blogging friends Louise from Little Hearts Big Love has a lot of posts about CHD, as her lovely daughter Jessica had a serious congenital heart defect called hypoplastic left heart syndrome, which was discovered at her 20 week scan. She is now three years old and doing very well!

So back to the Swishing. “So what is a swishing party?” I hear you ask.

It’s basically clothes swapping. Here’s how it works.

  1. Each guest has a sort out and brings some nice clothes they have fallen out of love with, or can’t get in to anymore. The ones that you have been holding on to, but never actually wear. We opened our party out to books and accessories too.
  2. They go to the party, and donate some cash for the chosen charity.
  3. All the clothes and hung up (I luckily managed to borrow a shop fitter’s rack. But that pretty much only held my own clothes! So we hung everyone else’s on doors and drying racks, and draped them all over the furniture.
  4. Everyone has a nice cup of tea and some cake, and a chat.
  5. Everyone roots through the donations, and goes home with a ‘new’ outfit (Or two. Or three. Or a bin bag full.)
  6. Any leftovers get taken to a charity shop, or donated somewhere.
  7. The money is donated to the chosen charity.

We bagged up the leftovers (there were about ten bing bags worth!) and put the party dresses in bags for charity shops, and the jeans, jumpers and more practical clothes in bags for MK Storehouse, a great charity who distribute donated clothing for adults and children of school age upwards free of charge to families and individuals who are in need, and have been referred to them. So not only have we decluttered out bulging wardrobes, got a few new-to-us outfits, and raised money for Tiny Hearts, we have also given (quite a lot) of clothes to charity so that even more people can benefit. Not bad for a few hours of fun!

Tips for getting the best from you Swishing Party

  • Team up with a friend, so that you have more than just your own friends – then you get more variety! My sister Debbie invited her friends and helped me to organise it.
  • Make name badges for everyone if you have a mix of people who don’t know each other. I wish we had thought of that!
  • Assign a dedicated area for people to put the clothes they have claimed – we had a few incidents where things got muddled up again, as we didn’t think of this.
  • Have bedrooms available so people can try things on, and if you only have one full length mirror (like us) see if any of your guests can bring one. We only had the one, but in a way that was quite nice as we were asking other people what they thought.
  • Ask guests to bring old coat hangers, so people can see the clothes easily.

We thought it was also much nicer than just giving clothes to charity – we all enjoyed seeing a friend looking great in our donations (even if we were just a teeny bit jealous!) And I am pleased to report that I was (fairly) restrained, and only got about ten things back. But that did include a pair of barely-worn boots and some Birkenstocks, as well as several pretty dresses. And now that my lounge is back to normal, it feels enormous!

Have you ever been to a swishing party? Did you get any goodies? I’d highly recommend it!

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  1. yvette morgan

    9th March 2016 at 8:49 am

    Fab idea 🙂

    1. Becky Pink

      13th March 2016 at 9:15 pm

      Thanks so much Yvette, we had a great time xx

  2. Honest Mum (@HonestMummy)

    23rd February 2016 at 3:46 pm

    What a fab idea for a vital charity. Thanks for linking up to #brilliantblogposts x

    1. Becky Pink

      24th February 2016 at 10:45 pm

      Thank you, and thanks for hosting. We raised £50 so I was really pleased with that xx

  3. Sarah Admissions of a Working Mother

    19th February 2016 at 12:17 pm

    Well thats a great idea! Great cause as well #brillblogposts

    1. Becky Pink

      19th February 2016 at 9:12 pm

      Thanks so much Sarah, it was great fun and I love that we have managed to help other people at the same time xx

  4. Tara

    18th February 2016 at 5:40 pm

    What a fabulous idea. I had a massive clear out last year (10 pairs of jeans ?!) but took th to the charity shop. This would have been a wonderful alternative and a great way to spend one with friends too.

    1. Becky Pink

      18th February 2016 at 5:53 pm

      Ten pairs of jeans is pretty good going, as presumably you kept a few pairs? I had about six I think. It was lovely to spend time with my friends, without the kids needing things all the time! xx

  5. Andreea

    18th February 2016 at 6:53 am

    Clutter is one of my biggest problem and this might be the solution. This is a great post! #brilliantPosts

    1. Becky Pink

      18th February 2016 at 3:11 pm

      Ah you and me both, it’s virtually impossible for me to keep on top of it! This definitely helped and was a lot of fun – I’d say it is worth a try! xx

  6. John Adams

    18th February 2016 at 6:36 am

    I’m also a #LiveLAGOM participant. The “swishing party” looks like such an awesome idea for decluttering clothes. At the moment mine all go to the Salvation Army! #brilliantblogposts

    1. Becky Pink

      18th February 2016 at 3:13 pm

      I’m sure the Salvation Army are very happy with that, and I normally give my unwanted things to charity shops but this was way more fun! we raised £50 for Tiny Tickers too so that was great. I’m just popping over to see how your kitchen is going! xx

  7. Random Musings

    18th February 2016 at 1:06 am

    I’ve never heard of a swishing party but it sounds like a lot of fun. Great way to de-clutter, get a new outfit or two and donate to a good cause! Love the idea 🙂 #brillblogposts

    1. Becky Pink

      18th February 2016 at 3:18 pm

      Thanks so much Debbie, it was great fun, and I have finally got around to taking the last huge bag of leftovers to the charity shop, they seemed quite excited to get it! xx

  8. Fern P

    18th February 2016 at 12:00 am

    I love swishing parties! I hosted one about six or seven years ago and I couldn’t believe how much stuff we all ended up with! I love that you raised money for charity as well as donating the leftovers, such a fabulous idea 🙂

    1. Becky Pink

      18th February 2016 at 3:19 pm

      Thanks so much Fern, it went better than we could have hoped, and now that other friends have seen it, I keep getting asked when the next one will be! We got rid of so much stuff, it won’t be for a while though xx

  9. Sarah HP

    12th February 2016 at 11:02 pm

    How cute are the things that you got – love the boots. I’ve heard of swishing but never really thought about doing a swishing party for ourselves. I am the worst at enthusiastically de cluttering and then having the stuff sat in bin bags waiting to go to the charity shop forever! May be this approach would spur me on a little bit more.

    1. Becky Pink

      14th February 2016 at 11:05 am

      Yeah I know exactly what you mean – I often have a couple of bags kicking about my car whilst I get round to dropping them at the charity shop! I highly recommend doing one, it’s so much fun! xx

  10. Laura's Lovely Blog

    12th February 2016 at 9:42 pm

    What a really nice idea! A nice way to have fun with friends, clear out and raise money for charity. I keep trying to de-clutter… I really do!

    1. Becky Pink

      12th February 2016 at 10:18 pm

      Ha ha Laura, de-cluttering is such a hard thing to do, I really struggle with it. I’m trying my best but it’s an uphill battle! xx

  11. Angela at Daysinbed

    12th February 2016 at 3:34 pm

    What a fab idea! I’d like to do this at some point. Maybe I could raise some money for Adrenal Insufficiency Patients.

    1. Becky Pink

      12th February 2016 at 10:12 pm

      Yes that would be a great idea Angela, we all had fun and those of us who baked also enjoyed that xx

  12. Adelaide

    12th February 2016 at 11:11 am

    I’ll have to do this sometime, got so much stuff in my house that needs to go!

    1. Becky Pink

      12th February 2016 at 9:51 pm

      He he we did have a few other random bits and bobs that people brought round on the off chance – I think most of them were snaffled up as well as clothes! It was really fun, I’d really recommend it xx

  13. The Speed Bump

    11th February 2016 at 9:03 pm

    That sounds fantastic, what a brilliant idea – and how lovely of you to raise money for such a worthwhile charity! Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next Sunday Xx

    1. Becky Pink

      12th February 2016 at 10:10 pm

      Thank you, it was like going shopping for almost free, but without the horrible lighting! We made about £50 for Tiny Tickers, so we were happy with that xx

  14. Jess Powell (Babi a Fi)

    11th February 2016 at 7:22 pm

    I went to one a few years back and it was great fun. I really want to give it another go sometime! 🙂 #coolmumclub

    1. Becky Pink

      12th February 2016 at 10:08 pm

      Do it, do it Jess! We all had so much fun, it’s well worth the effort xx

  15. Talya

    11th February 2016 at 3:16 pm

    This is so awesome! I have only ever been to one clothes swap party and now I totally feel like holding my own…if I can ever get round to it! Thanks for inspiring us all linking this up #coolmumclub…great effort on the swishing front! x

    1. Becky Pink

      12th February 2016 at 10:07 pm

      Thanks Tayla, glad I’ve inspired you! We made about £50 for Tiny Tickers so I was really pleased with that xx

  16. Renee @peonieandme

    10th February 2016 at 8:40 pm

    I’m inspired. I love throwing things out, its my favourite thing to do when the husband isn’t around. However I always end up with no clothes at the end of it. Love the idea of swapping clothes and doing it for charity. Thank you for also educating us on Tiny Tickers. #bestandworst

    Renee @peonieandme x

    1. Becky Pink

      10th February 2016 at 9:23 pm

      Ah thanks so much Renee, I’m so glad to have inspired you! xx

  17. Sarah Howe (@RunJumpScrap)

    10th February 2016 at 8:16 pm

    Such a cool idea and the donations to charity is brill. I have a friend who always has a gander at my clothes before I donate to the charity shop but this is way more fun. Thanks for sharing with #bestandworst xx

    1. Becky Pink

      10th February 2016 at 9:25 pm

      Thanks Sarah it was great fun, I’d highly recommend it! Normally my sister gets all of my clothes but she had ran out of space! Thanks for hosting lovely xx

  18. Mmt

    10th February 2016 at 7:45 am

    Really love this idea!! X

    1. Becky Pink

      10th February 2016 at 9:25 pm

      Ah thanks you lovely, glad you like it! xx

  19. Louise (Little Hearts, Big Love)

    9th February 2016 at 10:49 pm

    What a brilliant idea for a fundraiser Becky and so much more fun than just giving clothes to the charity shop. Thank you for mentioning my post and for supporting a cause that is so close to my heart and helping to raise awareness of congenital heart defects x

  20. Mummy Here and There

    9th February 2016 at 7:42 pm

    What a great to reuse and promote a good cause X #kcacols

    1. Becky Pink

      9th February 2016 at 9:15 pm

      Thank you, there are so many great causes but this one has been on my mind recently xx

  21. Kate Holmes

    9th February 2016 at 6:59 pm

    Have always fancied giving this a go but as ever my shy nature holds me back. Great idea to get new friends and new stuff and make more space in the house with declutter exercise too

    1. Becky Pink

      9th February 2016 at 9:14 pm

      We were all a bit shy to begin with, but once we got stuck in, we were fine, even the people who didn’t know each other were finding things for each other! Maybe you could try a small one with just a few people you know? Thanks so much for reading xx

  22. Laura @ Dot Makes 4

    8th February 2016 at 12:04 pm

    I love this! What a great way to reuse clothes you don’t wear anymore while raising money for charity.
    I’m going to have to get some friends and family together and hold a swishing party 🙂
    Laura xx

    1. Becky Pink

      8th February 2016 at 12:26 pm

      Ah great I’m so pleased it’s inspired you to do your own, we had so much fun. I hope yours goes well! xx

  23. Lindi Mogale

    8th February 2016 at 9:46 am

    This is an amazing idea I have never thought of doing it like this. we need to to declutter our garage and outside shed and this way we can definitel do it without as much effort and the items are actually helpful #KCACOLS.

    1. Becky Pink

      8th February 2016 at 12:26 pm

      Ooooh yes, that would work really well (as long as the weather is OK!) I hope it goes well xx

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